Where it reads "hardship," insert whatever it is that is relevant to you!
"Hardship" is like the prodigal son - we are like the father to him -
In that story, the father -- while his son was still far away and WITHOUT knowing his TRUE intentions/heart/plan - ran to greet him - welcomed him, loved him, killed the fatted calf for him
for all he knew - the son wanted to rob him, beg for more money, use him, etc - he didn't care - The father just showed him unconditional love.
We need to be the father for "hardship" - we don't know what God's plan is, or what "hardship's" plan is - all we know and all responsible for is to be the "father" in action towards him
For all we know, this is GOD giving US a second chance to be Christ and a witness to "hardship" - maybe it was US who messed up and weren't the Godly witness to "hardship" that we should have been - maybe "hardship's" heart isn't in the right spiritual place and God is being gracious to US to give us a second chance...
Isn't it amazing what God can and WILL do!